Saturday, May 11, 2013

Dan Goes First

I drop Dan off at the airport tomorrow morning for his flight to Germany. That will kick off the 8 weeks until I see him- when I move out there in July. 

He seems very worried and sad about this. Rightfully so, it’s a long time. The longest time we’ve ever spent apart. He’s very adamant about spending time together, spending quality time together. Quite honestly, I don’t know the difference, because I consider anytime we spend together to be quality… :)

For as long as I remember I’ve always been quite unemotional about someone leaving, and do not allow their impending departure bother me.

My thought is… this is happening; they’re leaving no matter how I behave. Why would I spend their last months, weeks, days talking and thinking about how sad it will be. I would rather enjoy the time I do have with them. I don’t feel the need to put any unnecessary forced pressure on it.

They’re not gone until they are.

That doesn't mean I won't miss the hell out of this guy...

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